Midnight Thoughts




When someone walks out of your life, let them. There's no use in waiting for them if they've already decided to leave. What you make of yourself and your future is no longer tied to them. Yeah, you may miss them. But remember you weren't the one that gave up. It was their decision, you tried your best to make them stay but in the end you can't force them to if they don't really want to. I know it hurts, hurts so much, but there's nothing you can do now. People leave too soon, but the feelings and the connection , they stay too long. 

All I don't understand is why do people come close to your life if they don't intend to stay at all. They themselves will ask to stay in your life in the beginning and along the way when you'll get habitual of them, get attached to them, then they themselves would decide to leave, oh and that too for your own good. How on earth them leaving would do good to you. You sure are not happy about it, you sure are not celebrating it, its hurting you, maybe you are crying too but, no to them it will be good for you. Maybe all of those days that you spent with them, (even if its just chatting or talking on phone or meeting in person) didn't matter to them as much as they did to you, maybe that's why it is so damn easy for them but for you, so damn hard. Its funny how easily they walk into your life, and just like that how easily they walk out of it too. 

But still you don't hate them (you can never hate them), you just think they might have a good reason of doing all this but that is what is confusing. If they think them staying will ruin you somehow, then why do they come close, why did they stay for all those months too, why did they start the conversation. Why people are so damn confusing, why can't they just tell clearly what is in their mind or heart? Maybe then you could have fixed it or maybe you could have understood their point of view. Why they don't understand that them leaving will only ruin your trust, it won't do any good to you, yeah obviously slowly you'll move on from them, slowly they'll fade out from your mind, but do you even want that and will you be ever able to trust any stranger again? This ques is what they are leaving you with. Nothing good will come out of this. But still you wish they would have stayed longer, you wish only fate could have drifted us apart (if that was meant to happen in the future) and not them, you wish they would have listened to you and not left you, but now they are gone from your life, maybe permanently or may be temporarily, who even knows. 

Anyways I am not writing all of this out of hatred or anger, read something so was just wondering suddenly (got the inspiration) so thought of writing all of this down. Maybe you guyz can help me figure out if what i said is true or its just me overthinking at midnight. Do share your point of view. 

Thanks and love, 
Vanshika

Comments

  1. GaurangAugust 12, 2023 at 10:47 AM

    Well said! 👏🏻 And yeah! I totally agree with what your thoughts are about this whole incoming and outgoing situations. Well there's nothing more to discuss about the topic as you've already said it all very well and briefly. But if you're seeking a solution for all of these, then yes I can share some of my opinions on the matter. Firstly if you're looking for the partner who can be your soulmate and the best companion. and somehow he's around you somewhere maybe you know him or not, but if you know him and want to know him prior getting into something. Then the best way to understand him is to be a friend with him coz it's the first and the best relationship which indeed make a strong roots of your bonds and will help you to understand each and everything about the other person, things that he even don't utter from his mouth but you eventually understand it through his actions. The same thing that person will too acknowledge it about you. And somehow either one of you don't know about the other's feeling that he/she is having then you should proceed and after building up a strong bond just tell him how you feel but don't expect him to be a telepathic or a mind reader. When you tell him how you feel about him/her he'll definitely appreciate and value your feelings and if he's not having the same feeling then also he'll very politely tell you that he's happy to be a friend with you and will always be with you till the end of the line. And by this you won't be having any fear of losing that person as you didn't proceed to any further level of relationship, and the one you're having it's unbreakable. Well there's also a chance that maybe that person also feels the same way about you or will do so after you tell him maybe they started seeing you the same way you do to them. Just give them the time and don't expect a immediate sudden reply.
    And believe me a bond and relationship created out of a good friendship will always last forever coz they accept eachother for what they truly are.
    Hope you will get something positive out from my context and please do correct me if I'm wrong somewhere, have a great day
    Thanks
    Gaurang Gupta

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